Posts tagged Mindset
How To Have Faith Even When Things Seem To Go "Wrong"

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Yes, he requests his breakfast in the morning, and his dinner in the evening.

(And he's VERY persistent in his demands, lest I somehow forget to present him with his gustatory delights on time!).

But he doesn't pace the floor, wondering whether he'll actually get his next meal, or whether stock prices are going up or down, or whether he's "doing his purpose."

Now, of course it's silly to think of a cat worrying about any of those things.

Our feline friends are obviously on a different level of consciousness from humans.

But there's still a lesson to be learned about. . .

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When You're Born For Greatness But You're Just Not Showing Up

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That is a fairytale.

IT WILL NOT HAPPEN.

You know how I know?

Because look around — notice how many people in the world aren’t really truly happy and fulfilled.

They’re just going through the motions.

They’re ‘fine.’

But are they really out-of-this-world fan-fucking-tastic?. . .

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How The News Is Hurting Your Business (And What To Do About It)

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You see, the more challenges we face, the more we seek meaning.

When things are going great and we’re swinging in our hammocks sipping on an umbrella drink watching the sun set over a clear blue ocean (metaphorically or otherwise). . .

We’re having FUN, yes, but we’re not growing.

And guess what? We aren’t. . .

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Are You Repelling Money? 5 Habits To Stop Right Now

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Drop these 5 habits like a can of chemical-laced "Off!" and you’ll find yourself attracting a welcome swarm of money into your life – no ‘Law of Attraction’ this-doesn’t-actually-work-why-am-I-wasting-my-time-on-it techniques required.

One more thing: if you found that you’ve been practicing one or more of these habits. . .

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I Did Everything Wrong In My Business And Here Is What Happened

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Yeah, and my confession is around that last category.

(What? You thought I was ‘fessing up about the secret account? Don’t YOU have one?)

Okay… I’ll get to my confession in a minute, but first I want to let you know that, even though I consider myself a rather masterful (mistressful?) marketer, I have done EVERYTHING wrong.

Like, soooo wrong.

For instance? I haven’t set up nearly enough...

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The Bizarre Boss In Charge Of Your Business (No, It’s Not Your Customer)

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She’s in charge even when you think YOU are.

Which is why you need to ‘train’ her. You need to approach her with what you WANT instead of letting her run without your intentional interference.

And here’s the icing on the cake about your bizarre boss.

Unlike any of the ‘in-the-flesh’ bosses with whom you may have had a sketchy relationship—this one absolutely, 100% wants...

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Your Business Is Not A Self-Improvement Project (How Letting Go Of Goals Can Help You Achieve Them)

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But maaaan… I was stuck deep myself, and I needed a serious Physician, heal thyself moment.

So, I made a New Year’s Decision:

I’m done with the self-improvement project.

I’m done renovating the bedroom of my psyche or the living room of my business. The house (temple?) is perfect as-is.

This year, I’m practicing...

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Does This Blog Make My Butt Look Fat? (Or, How To Get Over Your Ego In Your Business)

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It may be something sorta within your control (like a silly typo or a mis-phrased something-or-other that gets people’s panties in a bunch), or it may be something entirely out of your control.

It might be that you get spammed, or hacked, or phished, and your site gets closed down completely and you’re freaking out because Ohmigod how the hell am I going to run my online business without a website?

Or it might just be that your browser...

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A Brief Biography Of Bliss (Or, How I Learned To Love Life Without Needing It To Be Perfect)

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I had read seemingly every self-help book on the market, attended seminars, meditated, gone to psychics, had tarot cards and my palm read, tried various forms of energy work, and concluded at one point in my mid-thirties that there was nothing else I could do, that everyone who said there was a ‘better life’ than the one I was living was- plain and simple- full of shit.

In fact, I reached a point where I believed that the ‘personal development’ industry was nothing more than a sham, meant to part me and my money with no attempt at delivering value.

(For the record, there are things about the ‘personal development’ industry that I don’t support or advocate, but that’s a topic for another time.)

The thing is, these days I’m the...

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